i know what you mean.. a friend of mine got into a car accident and his wife's face was all messed up.. and there was a mark on her face from the dash that looked like a few knuckles.. he almost got into a fight one day when we were out in public and some guy thought it would be cool of him to confront my friend.. this guy had a real bad attitude and we dont know why he did it, but even after all 4 of us explained to the guy what happened, he still wouldnt give it up, and my friend was forced to call the cops.. the guy took off before the cops got there.. thinking back on it, not sure how i would handle it if i saw some lady all messed up. sorry for the hijack.. hehe