Congrats Seth, but I think you can tell by the response, you BOTH should come. It is a great time. Take Stephen for example. Fiance' came 2 years ago, then she was nice enough to let him and his brother come last year just a week before the wedding. Its a great time that you are not going to want to miss.....it truly has become the highlight of my year.....people are great people are great people are great!